What will your legacy be when you are gone? How will people remember you?
Well, hopefully you've got a lot of time left to work that out and impact the world in a positive way. Also, hopefully your obituary after you pass isn't anything like the one that this family wrote up for their loved one after she passed.
Let's break this thing down.
The first two paragraphs are great, setting the scene, getting to know the person's backstory a little bit. Then, in paragraph number three, the author drops an atom bomb.
"In 1962 she became pregnant by her husband's brother Lyle Dehmlow and moved to California."
Awk-ward...but it doesn't stop there.
"She abandoned her children," the obituary continues. "...[she] will now face judgement. She will not be missed...and this world is a better place without her."
I'm not really sure what to say about that one, maybe we'll just leave that one there.